Ever Wonder....

Ever wonder why certain people cross your path? Of course you do... we all do...

For me, it seems that these days I'm actually understanding, or I think I understand, why these certain people are there... Most are there to teach me something... Whether it be patience, compassion, love, I'm finally noticing what they are bringing into my life.

Since my separation, I have made MANY new friends! After my husband left, I traded my cruiser motorcycle for a sport bike (super sport) and I have made a slew of new friends and acquaintances. Some of these people I will remain friends with for a long time... while others will be gone before the next riding season begins... But I have noticed that I am learning something about myself as each passes in my life.

Some are teaching me to be passionate again... I met one fellow who shares almost all the same passions as I do... but we share mostly our passion for music and motorcycles. He is in a band and loves creating and being with his instrument of choice. As a singer, I can relate to that need that he has to sit for hours with his drums and just play. Forget that the rest of the world exists and just play.

Some are teaching me independence... One person is somewhat coaching me on being single and enjoying myself... I've learned that I don't need a man, and I don't have to be with another man for a while... I can be happy alone... no one to worry about, just myself. And let me tell you, it's good!

Some are teaching me patience... A few people have an annoying way about themselves, yet because the sport bike community is small, you have to grin and bear it when we are all together... bite your tongue, don't say what you really want! The Miss Congeniality award is up for grabs! :)

Some are teaching me generosity... Helping a fellow biker (notably myself) with their bike until the wee hours of the morning cause something just doesn't feel right. Washing and taking care of my bike, free of charge, everytime it goes to their house. "The Spa" as some like to call it... Hours on end of fixing and making it just right. No questions asked, nothing expected in return.

In short, this has been the best summer ever for me, for my growth... I have learned more about myself in the last 5 months then I have in the last 8 years. I have never laughed so much and shed so few tears... Something in me has changed... I am now a strong woman, with a big heart, and I can take a lot of crap. I love to love... and I love all my friends, old and new! I would do anything for most of them (you know who you are)...

Until next time...